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Now that I have left California and seeing Dave for 3 weeks, what shall I expect now that we have parted? How is he really affected by me leaving and what will become of the 2 of us now?
It feels like your energy is very bright, you have a good effect on him. You have a positive brilliance that shows me that you have optimism, and you are wondering about him.
Men integrate things differently and right now, he is using you to grow, feel good, I heard “using you to grow” and feel better about himself. I don’t want us to think of the word “using” like you are being used, far from it. Right now he needs to heal and he is able to do it with your touch and magical influence.
So let’s see about the coming weeks and months, right now an “easy does it” approach for the both of you, you are getting your energy clear because you feel attraction and have some questions still, it is a different feeling to part and you are integrating.
It is also feeling your needs wants and desires because a lot of energy is going towards him and his balance but it is going to change and grow.
Women usually want to build commitment (even before they figure out compatibility!) When a man is in the healing phase which he is, this is more about him feeling like himself and then building togetherness and commitment. He will. You will gently integrate yourself and then coax each other into partnership. You’re here to do something together! These loves are intense and they express themselves in different ways, right now it feels like integration is important and then creating a space that coaxes each party into a partnership and container that is balanced with giving and receiving, commitment as it grows and all the fun stuff.
Let me know how this resonates and feel free to add more questions!
Thank you so much for the insight and concise reading. Your are very concise and accurate regarding the situation and yes, it resonates all too well…
He is healing & dealing with some pretty significant “demons” which he wants to conquer and move past. I feel pretty helpless because this is his path and I give him unconditional love and support. However my additional question is….a future with him depends on him transcending these “demons”…do I wait it out for him or shall I move on ….will he heal, will he get there?. He has already mentioned taking positive steps to help himself heal and get on the right path but one never knows..being with him feels so right and we have a fabulous very connected relationship. It feels wrong to not be with him..so there I struggle.
I think his success is coming.
Some people want time frames because they feel better about their relationship if they have one. There can be something healthy about timeframes if there is a urgent goal to achieve like kids, or having two options to choose from. Sometimes though, timeframes are more about self esteem and keeping up a certain kind of appearance of love.
It feels to me like communication without a timeframe, like “I am enjoying this” “I am worried and triggered by this” but in a “looking at me” way vs. “looking at you” way of expressing yourself is best, because he can only hear so much without hurting and I think he is about to breakthrough. At the point he breaksthrough maybe 3 months to 6 months? He feels energized and worthy enough and the focus is less on his journey. Everyone needs to heal. Let’s have faith that this one has what it takes to get through.
Thank you so much! I pulled an angel card last night and received “Patience”…..enough said. I know what I need to do and that is really to do nothing and just let the universe take over. Much love and many hugs
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